Over the weekend a girlfriend and I were having a sprightly conversation when we happened to stumble on the topic of Kim and Kanye. My friend goes on to blurt out,
“You know what I hate bout Kim Kardashian, she doesn’t have any type of identity. She conforms to whomever she’s dating.
Like this whole sh*t , all of a sudden she’s wearing sneakers and dressin stink because she’s lettin Kanye dress her.”
We’ve always hated Kim Kardashian, hated her because she was so perfect. Her makeup was always on, her wardrobe was always perfection, but now she’s lost her footing. Since she’s started dating Kanye, she’s had a wardrobe overhaul. Leather, sneakers, black, lace bra’s and tees, no makeup, less weave, all courtesy of her stylist, Kanye West.
Yes, Kanye has brought on a change in Kim, and she’s the happiest we’ve seen her since..since her fairytale wedding. But, we have to ask, how much of yourself do you lose to make your mate happy?
Ladies, I know we love to change our men. We love to tell them what to wear and how to dress, but is it ok when a man does it? Or should I ask, how much of yourself should you change for a man?
Maybe Kanye’s bringing out a side of Kim she never thought she had or maybe he’s just molding her into the woman he wants.
Whatever happened to the love me for me clause?
Ladies, how much of yourself are you willing to change for your boo boo?!